Many people are ashamed to talk or to express their sexuality, further more to accept their own sexual desires as being part of a normal life. It is well known if sexually we are not satisfied, we start to be frustrated and our behaviour changes gradually. I suppose some realised how easy is to grow a frustration into a big problem which sometimes leads to depression, isolation, aggressiveness etc.
Being sexual it’s part of human nature and it’s a basic instinct, a survival instinct. First because fulfilment of sexual needs gives us a great mind and body relaxation and second it’s part of procreation. It’s the way our species will survive. That’s why it’s almost impossible to remove sexual instinct from our DNA.
Being social makes us adopt social believes and behaviours related to the culture we grew up and we still live. Many times sexuality is considered to be a tabu subject, but ignoring or avoiding it won’t make it disappear. It will still be there and we still need to deal with it!
Instead of feeling sick, angry, awkward, ashamed or in any other way, we should accept that it’s part of us and will influence our lives and decisions. Understanding our own nature will lead to acceptance and a great relief.
Worrying and feeling guilty will make the situation worse and will consume much more energy to fight it than to embrace it!
Some feel guilty or dirty because are sexual aroused but many think of it as being something bad, which it isn’t, it’s just natural to be sexual. Tantric massage helps to relax your entire body and to feel how your body is lighter and think clearer. Removing the tension and anxiety from your head and body will lift your spirit and will help you to see the world in a better light!
Enjoy the benefits of being sexual and use it in your favour!