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Tantric orgasms

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It is generally believed that females are capable of having three types of orgasms — clitoral, vaginal, and blended — and males experience a single, more general type of orgasm.  Tantra introduces a different type of orgasm available to both males and females — the “energy” or “heart” orgasm.  Tantra preaches being “in your heart” at all times, meaning being aware of the positivity and erotic energy inside of yourself, and suggests that it is possible to transform these blissful feelings into a full-body orgasmic state of being.

Massage and Meditate – Take at least one hour to exchange full-body massages with your partner. They can include some genital stimulation but not intercourse.  Focus on fully giving and receiving.   With one hand on your partner’s lower back and the other between their shoulder blades, and have them hold you in the same way.  Stay like this for five minutes, and focus on syncing your breathing with each other.  By connecting in these non-sexual ways, you and your partner may be able to find new sources of pleasure and better understand how to interact both inside and outside of the bedroom

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Being sexual is natural!

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Many people are ashamed to talk or to express their sexuality, further more to accept their own sexual desires as being part of a normal life. It is well known if sexually we are not satisfied, we start to be frustrated and our behaviour changes gradually. I suppose some realised how easy is to grow a frustration into a big problem which sometimes leads to depression, isolation, aggressiveness etc.

Being sexual it’s part of human nature and it’s a basic instinct, a survival instinct. First because fulfilment of sexual needs gives us a great mind and body relaxation and second it’s part of procreation. It’s the way our species will survive. That’s why it’s almost impossible to remove sexual instinct from our DNA.

Being social makes us adopt social believes and behaviours related to the culture we grew up and we still live. Many times sexuality is considered to be a tabu subject, but ignoring or avoiding it won’t make it disappear. It will still be there and we still need to deal with it!

Instead of feeling sick, angry, awkward, ashamed or in any other way, we should accept that it’s part of us and will influence our lives and decisions. Understanding our own nature will lead to acceptance and a great relief.

Worrying and feeling guilty will make the situation worse and will consume much more energy to fight it than to embrace it!

Some feel guilty or dirty because are sexual aroused but many think of it as being something bad, which it isn’t, it’s just natural to be sexual. Tantric massage helps to relax your entire body and to feel how your body is lighter and think clearer. Removing the tension and anxiety from your head and body will lift your spirit and will help you to see the world in a better light!

Enjoy the benefits of being sexual and use it in your favour!

Breathing exercises in tantric massage

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breathing exercises in tantric massage

1. Sit up straight. Exhale.

2. Inhale and, at the same time, relax the belly muscles. Feel as though the belly is filling with air.

 

3. After filling the belly, keep inhaling. Fill up the middle of your chest. Feel your chest and rib cage expand.

 

4. Hold the breath in for a moment, then begin to exhale as slowly as possible.

 

5. As the air is slowly let out, relax your chest and rib cage. Begin to pull your belly in to force out the remaining breath.

 

6. Close your eyes, and concentrate on your breathing.

 

7. Relax your face and mind.

 

8. Let everything go.

 

9. Practice about 5 minutes.

 

Another breathig exercise in tantric massage and yoga:

The following exercises are simple ways to deepen breathing and to cleanse the lungs. These exercises will also increase energy and decrease tension.

Lie flat on your back to get a proper sense of deep breathing. (Have some small pillows available to reduce strain by tucking them under the neck and knees. The natural course of breathing in that position will create a slight rise in the stomach upon inhaling and a slight fall upon exhaling.)

Place your hands palm down on your stomach at the base of the rib cage. (The lungs go that far down. What fills them deeper is the pushing down of the diaphragm. The diaphragm creates a suction which draws air into the lungs. the air is then expelled when the diaphragm pushes up. In this process, the life-giving oxygen fills the lungs and gets into the blood stream for distribution to the cells. Carbon dioxide is expelled from the blood into the about-to-be exhaled breath, thus cleansing the body and blood of waste products.) Lay the palms of your hands on your stomach just below the rib cage, middle fingers barely touching each other, and take a slow deep breath. (As the diaphragm pushes down, the stomach will slightly expand causing the fingertips to separate somewhat.

 

This movement indicates full use of the lungs, resulting in a truly deep breath rather than the “puffed chest” breath experienced by many as the greatest lung capacity. Chest breathing fills the middle and upper parts of the lungs. Belly breathing is the most efficient method. Infants and small children use only this method until the chest matures. The yoga breath or roll breathing combines belly and chest breathing.

 

FOR BEST RESULTS, PRACTICE THIS EXERCISE FOR 5 MINUTES.

Tantric Massage in London

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In spite of most people think tantric massage might be, we are trying to give back to tantric massage what really is: an opportunity to touch body and soul. We can extend of making from tantric massage a way to reach our spiritual side within us. A form of massage is the meditation massage.Main attitude for this type of touch is to be present. Give up to all that passed and to all the future expectations, mind calculations and be here, be now.Present time is all we have.Past is gone, and future might be but now is our treasure.This attitude is very importand for both maseusse and the one who receives.

More important than the massage techniques is the personal mark,

More important than the personal mark are the receptor desires,

More important than the receptor desires is never push

Let it flow,

Be ready,

To descover new horizons.

Sensations.

What should the receiver feel when goes to tantric massage? If tantra is the art of living fully aware in the present time and touch is one of the fundamental ways to comunicate,we can say that the tantric touch is that caress that comes from the heart. It is so very important that the one to massage likes what she does, being connected with her own soul, in this way transmitting the message from her soul though body touchings. Otherwise, when touch has mean purposes like get more money out of it no matter the consequences, the tantric massage will be strictly limited to a just body touch, the price for flesh only.

Instead, the touch from the heart has the power to heal, to awake beautiful emotions and allows to reach a very profound comunication with yourself and with the ones around you, inside and outside.Touchings are always meant to be full of sincerity, respect, harmony and love. It is all about comunicating everyting we feel and experimenting it through the body language,through tantric massage.

Erotic massage-final countdown or final spring of immortality?

For man, the force responsable for seminal production is the same responsable for his general vitality and health.The excessive and regulate ejaculations weakens slowly the kidneys energy, in this way the constitutional strengh is getting more and more poor. Dao tradition practicians think that when sperm needs out it will find a way to self-regulation and that man needs to make a definite difference between ejaculation and orgasm.A man needs complete orgasm and this involves the control and the conscient observation of the sexual energy circuit in the body, from the sexual level to the highest one.Practice makes it perfect, so, a trained man can reach orgasm without ejaculation, in other words, his maximum energetical point will not be wasted but transformed in his body to a different kind of energy: mental, affective, spiritual.The purpose of tantric massage Tao is to help this event happen, so, different kind of orgasm can be experienced. Tantric massage is a chance that during relaxation the energetical channels will clear and the sexual energy will flow more easily in all the body.In this way, man could train himself to control the sexual energy and regain his natural strengh reaching high age in high psysical, mental, emotional condition.

Premature ejaculation – how to keep your body under control (Kegel exercises)

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Learn how to control your body: 

Breathing:

Lay down or sit and close your eyes. Breath in thru your nose and expand your belly like a balloon! This will help your lungs to get bigger and to retain more oxygen. Breath out thru your mouth with your mouth open and get all the air out by sucking your tummy! This exercise helps to relax if is done correct for few minutes.

Penis (Lingam/ Lingham) and anal area: 

The penis ( Lingam called in Tantric massage) is NOT a muscle, it is simply organ tissue, like the tissue of your stomach or liver. The penis will not grow or shrink for excessive use or lack of use because it is not a muscle, the only growth that occurs is from the blood filling the spongy tissue upon erection. If you suffer from premature ejaculation than are few exercises that you can do.  Do not put too much pressure on it because may lead to other complications. 

You need to work with that area individually. For that you need to think about your penis and anus as being separate from the whole body. It is the same technique when is about moving our arms or legs individually. 

 

Even though the vast majority associate orgasms with ejaculation, there is a difference!  Are two different things! You can have multiple orgasms but you can ejaculate only once in a sexual activity.  It is true that ejaculation and orgasms happens simultaneous especially in male’s sexual life but it doesn’t mean that you can’t dissociate it! 

 

The refractory period is the period between ejaculation and the time to recover and get ready to ejaculate again. It is known as the RESOLUTION phase in the sexual response circle. Normally it takes between 15 to 30 min, but if you are younger it will be shorter and if you are older tends to get longer. This is also the time when your body is replenishing the sperm source so that you are able to ejaculate again! 

 

In the refractory period all of the genitals and body parts come back down to normal size, shape, color, it might feel a rush of intimacy and also sleepiness .

 

In order to have multiple orgasms you have to avoid the refractory period.

 

So how can you have multiple orgasms without ejaculating? Well… there are some tricks that are meant to help you gain control over your body and take you to haven!

 

Step 1: Edging 

 

Or orgasm control is when you come as close to the metaphorical orgasm edge as possible without ejaculating. It is very important to exercise so you find out how your body works and to train your pubococcsygeus muscles (PCM). If ejaculation is 100 % and between 90- 95 % there is no turning back, when you are at about 80% you should stop the stimulation until your arousement comes down a little bit and then pick it up back again.  You can do this for 3 or 4 times before ejaculating.

 

Benefits of this work-out!

 

1. Helps you to be in tune with your own body

 

Knowing when to stop and knowing the exact time when you ejaculate it’s a real benefit to your sexual life and for your partner.  This will help you to discovery new feelings and emotions which will bring you an immense pleasure!

 

2. Practice self control

 

Self control it is very import specially if your partner needs more time to get to that very high point of arousement. This will help you to have simultaneous orgasms and a more happy sexual life.

 

3. Stronger pubococcsygeus muscles (PCM)

 

This muscles are in the floor pelvic cavity and are the one you use to stop a stream of urine.  Strong PC muscles also produce stronger orgasms and can help with premature ejaculation.

 

Start the pee – unclench

Stop the pee – clench  

 

Work out your muscles by clenching and relaxing your PCM .

Do everyday 3 sets of 20 everyday for 4 weeks and you will see and improvement. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, this is one of the main steps in controlling your ejaculation 

Sensual Tantric Massage, Erotic Massage, Nude Body to body Massage in London

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Massage has been found to improve circulation, joint range-of-motion and flexibility. It can reduce many common ailments such as stress, muscle tightness, aches and pains – even anxiety and depression. Sensual Tantric Massage has the added benefit of providing and creating pleasure for all the senses.

Tantric Massage is a ritual of receiving sensual kundalini (sexual) energy. In this ritual, you are given time to explore your body without goals. Tantric massage adds energy healing and tantric coaching to the ecstasy of receiving a nurturing and awakening sensual massage. It creates an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully present to your sexual energy.

Is a new step in a sexual life of any modern person, a disclosure of new erogenous zones, an exchange and increase in positive energy and emotions. Erotic massage reveals a huge amount of sexual energy and it is only natural that the culmination point is the maximal excitation and a discharge – achievement of orgasm. Regular practice of erotic massage not only improves your organism in general, but as well completely opens all your (at times unexplored) erogenous zones and allows you to keep your body under control as long as you wish.

The main task of erotic massage is sexual stimulation. Sexual excitation can be achieved by caressing of sensitive parts of a body (erogenous zones). Body to body massage causes strong impulses which through nervous system are transferred to genitals. The nude state of the reciver and the masseuse allow them both to enjoy the situational elements of the tantric massage. Every gentle touch of skin on skin contact intensifies the erotic massages. The reciver feels pleasure and relaxation that radiates out to the masseuse.

Tantric massage is a wonderful way to awaken and experience the erotic energy in relaxed awareness and love. It opens up a new world of intimate togetherness experiencing the magic of touch.he tantric massage is a deeply relaxing, rejuvenating and healing experience that awakens sensitivity and energy, increases the self confidence and the capacity to enjoy the life.Tantric massage is something worth studying but most of all practicing. More important than the techniques is the attitude and the loving attentiveness behind the touch.

The purpose of erotic massage is to excite reciver, to create favorable conditions for sensual pleasure and eventually for high-grade and duly orgasm. The essential component of your enjoyment is also the pleasure of aesthetic and spiritual communication with the masseuse.

Chakra imaginary in Tantra ( London tantric massage )

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Whatever their correlation to physical structures within the body, chakras are entirely non-physical. The mind, rather than sense organs, is the traditional tool for accessing, exploring and balancing the energy of each chakra.

 

The main features of each chakra are described here as in the original Vedic text, as they would be visualised by a meditator. Each chakra is symbolised by layers or imaginary, including a particular animal, and a god and a goddess whose form and attributes encapsulate the inherent qualities that arise when the chakra is functioning in a balanced way.

 

The 7th chakra are:

 

– Muladhara – This is the base chakra and it’s name means “foundation”

 

– Svadistana – The sacral chakra, whose name means ” sweetness”

 

– Manipura – The solar plexus chakra’s name means ” city of gems”

 

– Anahata – The name of the fourth, on heart, chakra means “unstruck”

 

– Vishuddha – This is the throat chakra, and it’s name means ” pure”

 

– Ajña – The blow chakra’s name means “command”

 

– Sahasrara – The “thousand – petalled” crown chakra is at the top of the head